Elton John Opens Up About Fatherhood and Why It’s the ‘Greatest Thing’ He’s Ever Done
Elton John is known for his legendary career and his incredible musical achievements, but when it comes to what truly matters to him, his role as a father stands above it all. At 77, the iconic singer-songwriter has shared that becoming a dad later in life has been the most rewarding experience of his life. In a recent radio interview promoting his Broadway show Tammy Faye, John revealed that his two sons, Zachary (13) and Elijah (11), are the most important part of his world.
Here’s why fatherhood is so meaningful to Elton John and how becoming a parent later in life has reshaped his priorities.
Becoming a Dad: A Life-Changing Experience for Elton John
For Elton John, fatherhood is the ultimate achievement. Although he’s had a career that’s spanned decades, with countless hits and awards, nothing compares to the joy of raising his two sons with husband David Furnish. John shared his feelings about becoming a dad on Andy Cohen’s radio show, and it’s clear that his family is the center of his world.
“It’s the greatest thing I’ve ever done,” Elton John said when asked about being a father later in life. Despite his incredible career—one filled with fame, fortune, and global success—he considers raising his children the highlight of his life.
“Personally, I’ve had an amazing life, a great career, incredible achievements, music, blah, blah, blah,” he said, before adding, “But I would say that our sons, and David, are the most important things to me.”
Why Fatherhood Came First: Elton John’s Decision to Step Away from the Spotlight
Being a dad has changed Elton John’s approach to life and work. In fact, it was his children who helped him make a major decision: to step away from the road. After decades of touring and performing, John made the choice to slow down and spend more time with his family.
Elton explained, “I came off the road to be able to spend the latter part of my life being there for them.” For the singer, his family became his top priority, and this shift allowed him to be more present for his sons and his husband, David Furnish.
For John, fatherhood wasn’t just about having children—it was about creating a life that allowed him to enjoy the little moments with his family. He has openly admitted that raising his sons has brought him a sense of fulfillment and joy that nothing else could.
The Joys and Challenges of Being a Gay Parent
As an openly gay man, Elton John is also an advocate for LGBTQ+ parents. During the interview, he addressed the challenges that gay parents sometimes face, especially when it comes to societal perceptions of family.
“I think anyone who is gay that brings up a child deserves applause,” he said. “There’s so many people who say it shouldn’t happen.” In a world where LGBTQ+ rights have been a hot-button issue for years, John’s willingness to speak out is significant. He believes that all loving parents—regardless of their sexual orientation—should be celebrated for creating families.
John went on to mention his good friend, CNN’s Anderson Cooper, who is also a proud father. “I’m sure Anderson’s a great dad,” John said, showing his support for other LGBTQ+ parents in the public eye. He also emphasized that raising children is “the greatest gift” any parent could experience, adding, “I’ve never had a better gift in my life, and I wouldn’t swap it for anything.”
How Fatherhood Changed Elton John’s View on Life
Becoming a father later in life has profoundly impacted Elton John’s outlook. He admits that his sons have taught him valuable lessons in patience, love, and joy, lessons that go far beyond anything he learned in the music industry.
“I wouldn’t swap it for anything,” he said, reflecting on the joy of parenthood. For a man who’s had an extraordinary career and enjoyed the heights of fame, the simple pleasure of being with his children is now his greatest reward.
His children, Zachary and Elijah, were born via surrogacy, and their arrival marked a new chapter in Elton’s life. The love he has for his sons is palpable in everything he says about them. Their happiness and well-being have become his ultimate focus.
Elton John’s Message to LGBTQ+ Parents: Love is What Matters Most
Throughout his career, Elton John has broken barriers as an openly gay public figure. His message about fatherhood is another important chapter in his advocacy for the LGBTQ+ community. By openly discussing his experiences as a gay father, John has helped normalize LGBTQ+ families and has inspired countless others who share similar journeys.
He also spoke to Andy Cohen about the joy of seeing other gay couples raise children. “For all the other people out there who are gay and have their own children, it’s the greatest gift you could possibly have,” John said, expressing pride in the growing acceptance and support for LGBTQ+ families. He’s not just a famous musician—he’s a role model who continues to inspire others with his message of love, acceptance, and family.
The Future of Elton John’s Family Life and Legacy
Looking ahead, Elton John remains committed to his family while also continuing his legendary career. While he has stepped back from touring, his influence on music, charity, and the LGBTQ+ community remains as strong as ever.
In 2023, John announced his retirement from touring after completing his farewell tour, “Farewell Yellow Brick Road.” Despite stepping away from the stage, John’s legacy is cemented—not just in music but in his advocacy for family, equality, and LGBTQ+ rights.
As he enjoys his later years, Elton John is embracing fatherhood fully and enjoying the precious time he gets to spend with his sons. For him, being a father has been the most rewarding chapter of his life, and it’s a gift he will continue to cherish forever.
